who is ur best friend?

NOTE:this article is a outcome of a sad soul who feels betrayed by his best friend.

it hurts when ur best friend talks to some arbit guy and tells him that I am a loser. i dont mind being called a loser. i dont mind when some random guys say that i am a loser. i dont even mind when my best friend comes to me and say "man u r a loser". BUT, i do feel bad when he tells someone else that i am a loser.

i define best friend to be the one who supports me when i do the right thing and one who opposes me when i am about to do the wrong thing.

if he feels that i have some bad qualities, i would appreciate if he comes to me and discusses about it. if he feels that i am a loser, come to me and say it. maybe for few seconds, it might hurt. but after few seconds, i will be glad that he said so. then, maybe, we can sit down and discuss why he thinks so. this way i can analyze the wrong qualities in me and work hard to overcome them.

when i was in school, my school principal once told me "dont have best friend rather have friends. because when u have best friend, one day or the other he is going to hurt you." today, i find it so true. i used to consider this guy (my best friend) a perfect, i used to think he can do no wrong. now, i realize he does not fit my definition of perfectism.